Welcome
To a workshop on pleasure-led touch and the Wheel of Consent .
When we touch for our delight — clearly, transparently, and with consent — something magical happens: the body that is touched can sense our pleasure and begins to echo it. "Taking” becomes a gift that travels through two nervous systems at once.
The Gift of Taking zooms in on the “Taking” quadrant of the Wheel of Consent. Through slow, guided practice you will discover how to:
- claim touch for your own enjoyment without apology;
- remain exquisitely attuned to the person you’re touching;
- let your genuine pleasure be felt by another, so they receive it second-hand.
Experience the pleasure of getting in touch with what you want with exercises that are simple and easy to follow, designed to show you where what you want turns into mutual nourishment.
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What We Will Practice
Owning Your Wanting
Feel the purity of the wishes of your hands and let them guide your touch.
The Pleasure Feedback Loop
Sense how the receiver’s body mirrors your enjoyment and sends it back.
Consent
Ask, feel, and change your mind—so everyone stays safe and present.
Trust Your Intuition
Track nervous-system cues (yours and theirs) and adjust in real time.
Practical Details
No experience needed. Total beginners to consent work are welcome.
Clothes stay on. All exercises are done with hands on skin that is normally exposed (arms, hands, face) unless partners agree otherwise.
Opt-out at any time for any reason.
📍 Location: Yogakollektivet Grefsen
🗓️ Date: Sunday 7th of September
⏰ Time: 17:00-20:00
⚖️ Value exchange: 490 NOK
At Yogakollektivet, yoga mats will be provided. If you’d like extra softness or warmth while sitting or lying down, we recommend bringing a sheepskin or another soft layer to place on top of your mat, as well as a blanket.
You Facilitators
Andrea and Kilo are certified tantra therapists who create a safe, grounded space for embodied exploration. Andrea brings trauma-informed coaching, guided inner journeys, and a gentle pace. Kilo brings presence, slowness, and a love for the Wheel of Consent. Together, they invite you to slow down, feel more, and meet yourself with honesty and care.
Kilo Scheffer
I’m Kilo—certified tantra therapist, Wheel of Consent geek, and lover of slow, honest touch.
My facilitation is warm, grounded, and agenda-free. I’m here to keep the container clear so you can explore with safety and curiosity.
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Andrea Altier
I’m Andrea – certified tantra therapist, trauma-informed coach, and guide in body-based self-discovery.
I create a space for you to land in your body, calm your nervous system, and reconnect with what feels true.
My work blends tantric therapy, inner journeys, and potential psychology – always at your pace.
